Wedding anniversary x 2
28 yrs ago today Kelley and I got married. Exactly 20 years later, we did it again.
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Indivisible—except by 3 and 11
Indivisible—except by 3 and 11. Thirty-three years ago today I met Kelley. It was a scorching hot today—just like today…
Read moreHelena + Nicola = A Whole Psychopath
My little sister Helena would have been 57 today; we were tight; between us we made a whole psychopath
Read moreLove and isolation: 31 years ago
I moved to the US to be with Kelley exactly 31 years ago. Life then felt weirdly similar to pandemic life today.
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32 Years: A Life
32 years ago today I met Kelley and fell stone in love. That love grows wider, deeper, and more richly textured every day. Along the way we have changed each other, and between us we have made a third thing into which we have put a large part of ourselves: we have made Us.
Read more30 years in the US
Today is the 30th anniversary of me moving to this country to live with Kelley.
Read more31 years ago
31 years ago today, on a miserably hot Sunday, I met Kelley…
Read more30 years ago: a love story in photos
Thirty years ago today Kelley and I met in East Lansing, Michigan. Here’s our story in photos.
Read moreTwo rings: 24 years and 4 years
Today is our double wedding anniversary: 24 years, and 4 years.
Read more29 years ago
Exactly 29 years ago, on a hot summer day in East Lansing, on the first day of the Clarion Writers Workshop, I…
Read more28th Anniversary
Today is the 28th anniversary of the day I met and fell in love with Kelley at the Clarion Writers’ Workshop. And the first anniversary of marriage equality.anniv
Read moreMorning after
We tend to celebrate most things, and we often do it with wine, almost always with splendid food, and every single time with conversation.
Read more2 years ago, and 22 years ago
This is the first wedding anniversary we’ve spent apart—but it’s for a damn good reason!
Read moreDaffodil means spring
Tomorrow would have been my mother’s birthday.
Read moreTwo wedding rings
Kelley and I got married on Wednesday, 4th September, the 20th anniversary of our first wedding. This wedding was very simple, very…
Read moreLove, life, and Hild
Yesterday I finished the sixth draft of Hild. The manuscript, excluding ephemera, weighs in at 1002 pages: 207,333 words. In the next…
Read moreNineteen years ago today
I married Kelley nineteen years ago today. She married me, too, of course. More precisely, we married each other–really: no one officiated….
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Today is the 22nd anniversary of the day I moved to the US permanently to live with Kelley. I intend to spend…
Read moreMagic Flight’s Launch Box
I’ve been working on a blog post for Friday about what I was up to twenty-nine years ago (it’s an anniversary–but more…
Read moreFallen trees and setting sun
Yesterday was our wedding anniversary. Crapcam got a workout. First we were in the park. I spotted this fallen and naturally split…
Read moreOur eighteenth wedding anniversary
I won’t be around much today. It’s our wedding anniversary. The sun is shining, the day is young. We’re off out into…
Read morePort like cello music
One of the gifts we got for our anniversary was a bottle of 40 year-old port: We haven’t cracked it yet, but…
Read moreA treasure trove of wine
Our wine fridge broke. It made vile grinding noises, then gurgled, then the temperature went haywire. So we bought another and yesterday…
Read moreHugo awards
The Hugo awards were announced in Melbourne last night. I didn’t win. But, hey, at least I didn’t have to lose in…
Read moreHappiness and home
Today is our seventeenth wedding anniversary. When we got married it seemed like the most natural thing in the world. I had…
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