32 years ago today I met Kelley and fell stone in love. That love grows wider, deeper, and more richly textured every day. Along the way we have changed each other, and between us we have made a third thing into which we have put a large part of ourselves: we have made Us.
Read moreToday is the 30th anniversary of me moving to this country to live with Kelley.
Read moreKelley’s film OtherLife debts Thursday 5th October, 8:00 pm, at the San Diego Film Festival.
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On Thursday Oct 5 at 8:00 pm, Kelley’s beautiful SF movie, OtherLife, has its North American premiere at the San Diego International Film Festival. We’ll be there, and we want as many people as humanly possible to be there with us.
Read moreExactly 29 years ago, on a hot summer day in East Lansing, on the first day of the Clarion Writers Workshop, I…
Read moreToday is the 28th anniversary of the day I met and fell in love with Kelley at the Clarion Writers’ Workshop. And the first anniversary of marriage equality.anniv
Read moreIn honour of Valentine’s Day: the short version of how meeting Kelley changed everything.
Read moreHere’s a playlist of the nine songs included in the CD inside And Now We Are Going to Have a Party.
Read moreIf you’re wondering what to do July 9-12, wonder no more. Come to Readercon in Burlington, Massachusetts. I’ll be the Guest of…
Read moreLast night Kelley and I had a lovely intercontinental chat via Skype with Jonathan Strahan and Gary Wolfe, in Seattle, Perth, and…
Read moreKelley and I got married on Wednesday, 4th September, the 20th anniversary of our first wedding. This wedding was very simple, very…
Read moreThis year, like last, I’m involved on the organisational periphery of Clarion West’s Write-a-thon: a fundraiser that not only brings in money…
Read moreFor those planning to be at Westercon 66 in Sacramento over July 4th weekend, here’s my schedule: Thursday 7/4 5:45 pm Joint reading…
Read moreOn Monday Kelley and I were at the big queer lit bash known as the Lambda Literary Awards. I was there to…
Read moreTomorrow the Supreme Court hears arguments in Hollingsworth v. Perry, the Proposition 8 case regarding the legality of same-sex marriage in California. On…
Read moreWe saw this cloud right around noon on Wednesday. Those amazing colours lasted only a few minutes. It was basically a cloud-shaped…
Read moreFIRST of all, Kelley has written a most marvellous and heartfelt piece about the necessity of finding everyday magic to write: …But…
Read moreClarion West (CW), the best speculative fiction writing workshop in the world, is gearing up for another six-week workshop, in which eighteen…
Read moreAt the end of December the Guardian ran a story about reading and empathy: Psychologists from Washington University used brain scans to…
Read moreToday is the 22nd anniversary of the day I moved to the US permanently to live with Kelley. I intend to spend…
Read moreI have been having a truly marvellous few days. Hild is now safely in the hands of editors on either side of…
Read moreI found out yesterday that someone has been messing with my Wikipedia entry. Kelley changed from being my partner to being my…
Read moreToday is Kelley’s birthday. Last year we did a marathon ten-day jubilee celebration. This year will be saner. Today there’s a movie,…
Read moreyeah, crapcam again, sorry about that Raining, windy, leaves blowing. Neighbour cat huddling against the wall looking pathetic. (Yes, I’m talking about…
Read moreYesterday was our wedding anniversary. Crapcam got a workout. First we were in the park. I spotted this fallen and naturally split…
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